Demonstratives in Spanish (This, That, These, Those)
Learn how to point out and specify people, places, and things in Spanish - essential for shopping, directions, and descriptions!
What Are Demonstratives?
Demonstratives point out specific people, things, or places:
English: This book, that car, these shoes, those houses Spanish: Este libro, ese coche, estos zapatos, esas casas
Uses:
- Pointing out objects
- Distinguishing between items
- Indicating location relative to you
- Specifying which one you mean
Three Distances in Spanish
Spanish has THREE levels of distance (English has two):
ESTE = This/These (near speaker)
- Close to ME
ESE = That/Those (near listener)
- Close to YOU
AQUEL = That/Those (far from both)
- Far from both of us
Visual:
ME → [ESTE] ... YOU → [ESE] ... [AQUEL] far away
ESTE / ESTA / ESTOS / ESTAS (This / These)
Near the Speaker
Use for things CLOSE to you:
| Gender/Number | Spanish | English | Example |
|---|---|---|---|
| Masculine singular | este | this | este libro (this book) |
| Feminine singular | esta | this | esta casa (this house) |
| Masculine plural | estos | these | estos libros (these books) |
| Feminine plural | estas | these | estas casas (these houses) |
Usage Examples
ESTE (this - masculine)
- Este libro es interesante (This book is interesting)
- Este coche es mío (This car is mine)
- Este restaurante es bueno (This restaurant is good)
ESTA (this - feminine)
- Esta casa es bonita (This house is pretty)
- Esta película es aburrida (This movie is boring)
- Esta manzana está rica (This apple is delicious)
ESTOS (these - masculine plural)
- Estos libros son míos (These books are mine)
- Estos zapatos son caros (These shoes are expensive)
ESTAS (these - feminine plural)
- Estas casas son grandes (These houses are big)
- Estas flores son bonitas (These flowers are pretty)
ESE / ESA / ESOS / ESAS (That / Those)
Near the Listener
Use for things CLOSE to the person you're talking to:
| Gender/Number | Spanish | English | Example |
|---|---|---|---|
| Masculine singular | ese | that | ese libro (that book) |
| Feminine singular | esa | that | esa casa (that house) |
| Masculine plural | esos | those | esos libros (those books) |
| Feminine plural | esas | those | esas casas (those houses) |
Usage Examples
ESE (that - masculine)
- Ese libro es tuyo (That book is yours)
- Ese coche es rápido (That car is fast)
- ¿Cuánto cuesta ese reloj? (How much does that watch cost?)
ESA (that - feminine)
- Esa casa es de María (That house is María's)
- Esa camisa te queda bien (That shirt looks good on you)
- Esa película es buena (That movie is good)
ESOS (those - masculine plural)
- Esos libros son interesantes (Those books are interesting)
- ¿De quién son esos zapatos? (Whose shoes are those?)
ESAS (those - feminine plural)
- Esas flores son hermosas (Those flowers are beautiful)
- Esas chicas son mis amigas (Those girls are my friends)
AQUEL / AQUELLA / AQUELLOS / AQUELLAS (That / Those - Far Away)
Far from Both Speaker and Listener
Use for things FAR from both of you:
| Gender/Number | Spanish | English | Example |
|---|---|---|---|
| Masculine singular | aquel | that | aquel edificio (that building over there) |
| Feminine singular | aquella | that | aquella montaña (that mountain over there) |
| Masculine plural | aquellos | those | aquellos árboles (those trees over there) |
| Feminine plural | aquellas | those | aquellas casas (those houses over there) |
Usage Examples
AQUEL (that over there - masculine)
- Aquel edificio es muy alto (That building over there is very tall)
- Aquel coche allí es de mi padre (That car over there is my father's)
- Vivo en aquel edificio (I live in that building over there)
AQUELLA (that over there - feminine)
- Aquella montaña es hermosa (That mountain over there is beautiful)
- Aquella casa es muy vieja (That house over there is very old)
AQUELLOS (those over there - masculine plural)
- Aquellos árboles son grandes (Those trees over there are big)
- Aquellos hombres son mis tíos (Those men over there are my uncles)
AQUELLAS (those over there - feminine plural)
- Aquellas casas son caras (Those houses over there are expensive)
- Aquellas montañas son altas (Those mountains over there are tall)
Demonstrative Pronouns
When They Replace Nouns
Demonstratives can be used alone (without a noun):
As adjectives (with noun):
- Este libro (this book)
- Esa casa (that house)
As pronouns (replacing noun):
- Este es interesante (This one is interesting)
- Esa es bonita (That one is pretty)
All Forms as Pronouns
Near (ESTE):
- Este es mío (This one is mine - masc.)
- Esta es mía (This one is mine - fem.)
- Estos son míos (These ones are mine - masc.)
- Estas son mías (These ones are mine - fem.)
Medium (ESE):
- Ese es tuyo (That one is yours - masc.)
- Esa es tuya (That one is yours - fem.)
- Esos son tuyos (Those ones are yours - masc.)
- Esas son tuyas (Those ones are yours - fem.)
Far (AQUEL):
- Aquel es mejor (That one over there is better - masc.)
- Aquella es peor (That one over there is worse - fem.)
- Aquellos son caros (Those ones over there are expensive - masc.)
- Aquellas son baratas (Those ones over there are cheap - fem.)
Neutral Demonstrative Pronouns
ESTO / ESO / AQUELLO
These refer to abstract ideas or unidentified things (NO gender, NO plural):
ESTO (this - near)
- ¿Qué es esto? (What is this?)
- Esto es interesante (This is interesting)
- Esto no me gusta (I don't like this)
ESO (that - medium)
- ¿Qué es eso? (What is that?)
- Eso es verdad (That's true)
- Eso es imposible (That's impossible)
AQUELLO (that - far)
- ¿Qué es aquello? (What is that over there?)
- Aquello fue terrible (That was terrible)
Use when:
- You don't know what something is
- Referring to a situation or idea
- Pointing at something without naming it
Common Expressions with Demonstratives
Shopping Phrases
| Spanish | English |
|---|---|
| ¿Cuánto cuesta este? | How much does this one cost? |
| Quiero ese | I want that one |
| Prefiero esta | I prefer this one |
| Me gusta ese más | I like that one more |
| ¿Puedo ver aquel? | Can I see that one over there? |
| Llevo estos | I'll take these |
| No me gustan esas | I don't like those |
Pointing Out
| Spanish | English |
|---|---|
| Este es mi amigo | This is my friend |
| Esa es mi casa | That's my house |
| Aquella es la escuela | That one over there is the school |
| Estos son mis padres | These are my parents |
| Esos son sus libros | Those are his/her books |
Asking Questions
| Spanish | English |
|---|---|
| ¿Qué es esto? | What is this? |
| ¿De quién es ese? | Whose is that? |
| ¿Cuál prefieres, este o ese? | Which do you prefer, this or that? |
| ¿Son estos tuyos? | Are these yours? |
| ¿Quién es esa? | Who is that? |
Demonstratives vs. Location Words
Don't Confuse Them!
Demonstratives (point out nouns):
- Este libro (this book)
- Esa casa (that house)
Location words (adverbs - where):
- Aquí (here)
- Ahí (there)
- Allí/Allá (over there)
Combining them:
- Este libro aquí (This book here)
- Ese coche ahí (That car there)
- Aquel edificio allí (That building over there)
Practice Dialogues
Dialogue 1: At a Store
Cliente: Hola, quiero ver estos zapatos. Vendedor: ¿Estos de aquí? Cliente: No, esos de ahí. Vendedor: Ah, estos negros. ¿Qué talla? Cliente: El 42, por favor. Vendedor: Aquí tiene. Pruébese estos. Cliente: Estos me quedan bien. Me los llevo.
Translation: Customer: Hello, I want to see these shoes. Seller: These ones here? Customer: No, those ones there. Seller: Ah, these black ones. What size? Customer: Size 42, please. Seller: Here you are. Try these on. Customer: These fit me well. I'll take them.
Dialogue 2: Comparing Options
A: ¿Cuál te gusta más, esta camisa o esa? B: Me gusta más esa azul. A: ¿Y qué piensas de aquella roja? B: Aquella está bien, pero prefiero esta blanca. A: Yo prefiero esa azul también. B: Vale, entonces llevo esa.
Translation: A: Which do you like more, this shirt or that one? B: I like that blue one more. A: And what do you think of that red one over there? B: That one is okay, but I prefer this white one. A: I prefer that blue one too. B: Okay, then I'll take that one.
Dialogue 3: Asking About Things
A: ¿Qué es esto? B: Eso es un diccionario. A: ¿Y eso de ahí? B: Ese es mi teléfono. A: ¿Y aquello? B: Aquello es una lámpara antigua. A: Ah, entiendo. Gracias.
Translation: A: What is this? B: That's a dictionary. A: And that there? B: That's my phone. A: And that over there? B: That's an antique lamp. A: Ah, I understand. Thanks.
Practice Exercises
Exercise 1: Choose ESTE, ESE, or AQUEL
- ___ libro (this book - near me, masc.)
- ___ casa (that house - near you, fem.)
- ___ montañas (those mountains - far away, fem. pl.)
- ___ zapatos (these shoes - near me, masc. pl.)
Answers:
- Este libro
- Esa casa
- Aquellas montañas
- Estos zapatos
Exercise 2: Match Gender and Number
- ___ camisa (this shirt - fem. sing.)
- ___ coches (those cars - near you, masc. pl.)
- ___ edificio (that building - far away, masc. sing.)
- ___ flores (these flowers - fem. pl.)
Answers:
- Esta camisa
- Esos coches
- Aquel edificio
- Estas flores
Exercise 3: Use as Pronouns
- ¿Cuál prefieres? → Prefiero ___ (that one - masc.)
- ¿Son tuyos? → Sí, ___ son míos (these ones - masc. pl.)
- ¿Qué es? → ___ es un libro (this - neutral)
- ¿Te gusta? → Sí, ___ me gusta (this one - fem.)
Answers:
- Prefiero ese
- Sí, estos son míos
- Esto es un libro
- Sí, esta me gusta
Exercise 4: Translate to Spanish
- This book (masculine)
- Those houses (near you, feminine)
- That car over there (masculine)
- These shoes (masculine)
- What is this? (neutral)
Answers:
- Este libro
- Esas casas
- Aquel coche
- Estos zapatos
- ¿Qué es esto?
Common Mistakes to Avoid
❌ Mistake 1: Not Matching Gender
Wrong: ❌ Este casa Right: ✅ Esta casa (This house - feminine)
Wrong: ❌ Esa libro Right: ✅ Ese libro (That book - masculine)
Always match the gender of the noun!
❌ Mistake 2: Not Matching Number
Wrong: ❌ Este libros Right: ✅ Estos libros (These books - plural)
Wrong: ❌ Esas casa Right: ✅ Esa casa (That house - singular)
Match singular/plural!
❌ Mistake 3: Using ESTO/ESO/AQUELLO with Nouns
Wrong: ❌ Esto libro Right: ✅ Este libro (This book)
Esto/Eso/Aquello are ONLY used alone (no noun)!
- Esto es un libro (This is a book) ✅
- Este libro (This book) ✅
❌ Mistake 4: Confusing Distance Levels
Wrong context: Pointing at something near you: ❌ Ese libro Right: ✅ Este libro (This book - near ME)
Use ESTE for things close to YOU!
Quick Reference Chart
All Demonstrative Forms
| Distance | Masculine Sing. | Feminine Sing. | Masculine Pl. | Feminine Pl. | Neutral |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Near (this/these) | este | esta | estos | estas | esto |
| Medium (that/those) | ese | esa | esos | esas | eso |
| Far (that/those over there) | aquel | aquella | aquellos | aquellas | aquello |
Distance Guide
| Spanish | Distance | English |
|---|---|---|
| ESTE | Near speaker | This/These (close to ME) |
| ESE | Near listener | That/Those (close to YOU) |
| AQUEL | Far from both | That/Those (over THERE) |
With Location Words
| Demonstrative | + Location | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| este | aquí | this one here |
| ese | ahí | that one there |
| aquel | allí/allá | that one over there |
Your Action Plan
Week 1: ESTE Forms
- Master este, esta, estos, estas
- Practice pointing at things near you
- Use with everyday objects
Week 2: ESE Forms
- Learn ese, esa, esos, esas
- Distinguish between ESTE and ESE
- Practice in conversations
Week 3: AQUEL Forms
- Add aquel, aquella, aquellos, aquellas
- Practice three distances
- Point out far objects
Week 4: Pronouns and Neutral Forms
- Use demonstratives without nouns
- Master esto, eso, aquello
- Make it automatic
Pro Tip: Walk around your house pointing at things and using demonstratives: "Este libro," "Esa silla," "Aquel cuadro." This builds automatic usage!
Practice: When shopping or looking at options, always use demonstratives: "Quiero este," "Prefiero ese," "Me gusta aquel."
Memory Trick:
- ESTE = sounds like "esTEA" (near ME, I drink tea!)
- ESE = sounds like "essay" (give it to you, you write essay!)
- AQUEL = longer word = farther distance!
- -O ending = neutral (esto, eso, aquello) = no gender, used alone
Remember: Demonstratives are essential for pointing out and specifying exactly what you mean! Start with ESTE and ESE (most common), then add AQUEL. Practice with real objects to make it natural!